{"id":211256,"date":"2025-07-26T15:20:18","date_gmt":"2025-07-26T12:20:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/?p=211256"},"modified":"2025-07-26T15:20:18","modified_gmt":"2025-07-26T12:20:18","slug":"volkan-konakin-esi-olumunden-sonra-ilk-kez-konustu-duygusal-sozleri-yurekleri-dagladi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/volkan-konakin-esi-olumunden-sonra-ilk-kez-konustu-duygusal-sozleri-yurekleri-dagladi\/","title":{"rendered":"Volkan Konak\u2019\u0131n e\u015fi \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnden sonra ilk kez konu\u015ftu! Duygusal s\u00f6zleri y\u00fcrekleri da\u011flad\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"

Volkan Konak\u2019\u0131n 27 y\u0131ll\u0131k e\u015fi Selma Konak ilk kez sessizli\u011fini bozdu. Volkan Konak 31 Mart tarihinde sahnede kalp krizi ge\u00e7irerek hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmi\u015fti.<\/p>\n

VOLKAN KONAK\u2019IN E\u015e\u0130 \u00d6L\u00dcM\u00dcNDEN SONRA \u0130LK KEZ KONU\u015eTU<\/h3>\n

Volkan Konak 31 Mart’ta KKTC’de sahne ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 esnada k\u00f6t\u00fcle\u015ferek yere y\u0131\u011f\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Apar topar hastaneye kald\u0131r\u0131lan \u00fcnl\u00fc sanat\u00e7\u0131 yap\u0131lan m\u00fcdahalelere ra\u011fmen hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmi\u015fti.
\n58 ya\u015f\u0131nda hayata veda eden Konak\u2019\u0131n cenazesi baba oca\u011f\u0131 Trabzon\u2019un Ma\u00e7ka il\u00e7esinde defnedilmi\u015fti. Ani vefat\u0131yla herkesi \u00fczen Volkan Konak en \u00e7ok e\u015fini \u00fczm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc. Ac\u0131l\u0131 e\u015f aylar sonra ilk defa konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n

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Selma Konak, \u201cT\u00fcrkiye \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fi b\u00fcy\u00fck bir sanat\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 kaybetti. Siz ise \u00e7ok sevdi\u011finiz e\u015finizi, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n babas\u0131n\u0131. Hi\u00e7 beklemiyorduk bunu. Hepimizin bir kez daha ba\u015f\u0131 sa\u011f olsun. En \u00e7ok da sizin. ‘Nas\u0131ls\u0131n\u0131z’ sorusunu sormak b\u00f6yle anlarda \u00e7ok zor biliyorum, ama biraz olsun toparlayabildiniz mi?\u201d sorusuna \u015fu cevab\u0131 verdi:<\/p>\n

\u201cAsla. Bu m\u00fcmk\u00fcn m\u00fc? \u00c7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck bir yar\u0131m kalm\u0131\u015fl\u0131k var. Hayat\u0131m boyunca Volkan’dan ayr\u0131 kalmad\u0131m. Ne bedenen, ne ruhen. En b\u00fcy\u00fck korkum da bir g\u00fcn Volkan’dan uzak kalmakt\u0131. Korktu\u011fum en b\u00fcy\u00fck \u015fey ba\u015f\u0131ma geldi ve insan \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fiyle s\u0131nan\u0131rm\u0131\u015f, ben bununla s\u0131nand\u0131m, s\u0131nan\u0131yorum. \u015eu an bu r\u00f6portaj\u0131 vermek bana d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en zor g\u00f6revi gibi geliyor.\u201d<\/p>\n

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\u201cNASIL B\u0130R BO\u015eLUK. NE YA\u015eIYORSUN \u0130\u00c7\u0130NDE?\u201d<\/h3>\n

\u201cNas\u0131l bir bo\u015fluk. Ne ya\u015f\u0131yorsun i\u00e7inde?\u201d sorusuna ise Konak \u015fu \u015fekilde konu\u015ftu:<\/p>\n

\u201cYa\u015fam\u0131yorum sanki ya! Garip bir duygu. Bu s\u00f6yleyece\u011fim bir\u00e7ok insan i\u00e7in bu \u00e7ok sa\u00e7ma gelebilir, belki ele\u015ftirebilirler ama asla k\u0131namas\u0131nlar. Ben Volkan’\u0131 kendi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131n bile \u00f6n\u00fcne koyuyordum. Hani herkes der ki \u2018insan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne koyar m\u0131 e\u015fini?\u2019 evet koyarm\u0131\u015f. Bende bu b\u00f6yle i\u015fledi. Benim i\u00e7in Volkan herkesten \u00f6ndeydi, kendimden bile. Yani bu ac\u0131n\u0131n tarifi imk\u00e2ns\u0131z.\u201d<\/p>\n

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\u201cNE H\u0130SSED\u0130YORSUN, HAYATA NASIL TUTUNUYORSUN PEK\u0130?\u201d<\/h3>\n

\u201cBen \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck bir b\u0131\u00e7ak darbesi alm\u0131\u015f gibiyim. Can\u0131m \u00e7ok ac\u0131yor. Tedavisi imk\u00e2ns\u0131z bir yara bu. Onsuz her g\u00fcne uyanmak korkun\u00e7 bir \u015fey. \u2018Telefon\u2019 denilen o minik alet bile anlam\u0131n\u0131 yitirdi. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc benim i\u00e7in telefon, Volkan’\u0131n beni aramas\u0131, Volkan’\u0131n bana mesaj atmas\u0131yd\u0131. Ama \u015fu anda ne telefon, ne ba\u015fka hi\u00e7bir \u015fey umurumda de\u011fil biliyor musun? Sadece \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m. Zaten k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck olanlar yan\u0131mda, b\u00fcy\u00fck olanlar bana iki saat sonra da ula\u015fsa olur, hi\u00e7 sorun de\u011fil. Benim i\u00e7in telefon bile, her \u015fey anlam\u0131n\u0131 yitirdi.\u201d<\/p>\n

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\u201c\u00c7OK DER\u0130N YA\u015eIYORSUNUZ ACINIZI\u2026\u201d<\/h3>\n

\u201cEvet. Hem de \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck bir yas bu ve hi\u00e7 bitmeyecek\u2026 Asl\u0131nda nefes al\u0131yorsun sanki sadece. Ama \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m i\u00e7in ya\u015famak zorunday\u0131m. \u00d6l\u00fcmden hi\u00e7 korkmuyorum, herkese de ayn\u0131 \u015feyi s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorum. Neden? E\u011fer Volkan’a kavu\u015fmak varsa bu i\u015fin sonunda, hi\u00e7 korkmuyorum. Ama \u015fu anda ya\u015famak zorunday\u0131m, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m var. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hep derdim ki, \u2018Volkan bir \u015fey olacaksa beraber \u00f6lelim.\u2019 \u0130\u00e7erlenirdi. \u2018Selma l\u00fctfen b\u00f6yle deme, ben e\u011fer bir g\u00fcn \u00f6l\u00fcr gidersem, senin g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc kal\u0131p \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za sahip \u00e7\u0131kman gerekiyor.\u201d Ben \u015fu an g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc durmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum, yani s\u0131rf sadece Volkan’\u0131n dedi\u011fini yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201c\u00c7OCUKLARA H\u0130SSETT\u0130R\u0130YOR MUSUNUZ?\u201d<\/h3>\n

Selma Konak ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ac\u0131y\u0131 \u015fu \u015fekilde tarif ediyor:<\/p>\n

\u201cPeki bunu yaparken \u00e7ocuklara hissettiriyor musunuz bu b\u00fcy\u00fck ac\u0131y\u0131? Onlar da \u00e7ok sars\u0131ld\u0131. Baba ac\u0131s\u0131 kolay de\u011fil.\u201d<\/p>\n

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\u201cHay\u0131r, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc durur gibi yap\u0131yorum. Nefes al\u0131yorum, nefes veriyorum, yani ya\u015f\u0131yor gibi yap\u0131yorum, bu kadar! Ba\u015fka yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir \u015fey yok ama hayattan zevk al\u0131yor musun dersen, zerre zevk alm\u0131yorum. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Volkan\u2019s\u0131z hayat benim i\u00e7in hi\u00e7bir \u015fey. Tek gayem \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131n biraz daha b\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcp ellerinin ekmek tutmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamak. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z\u0131m daha 9 ya\u015f\u0131nda.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201c\u0130nsan sevdi\u011fini topra\u011fa koyunca bir yan\u0131 da onunla gider derler zaten\u2026 Nas\u0131l bir hayat\u0131n\u0131z var, g\u00fcnleri nas\u0131l ge\u00e7iriyorsunuz?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cDiyorum ya, ben Volkan\u2019s\u0131z ya\u015famay\u0131 bilmiyorum. 17 ya\u015f\u0131mdan beri, 34 y\u0131ld\u0131r onunla bir hayat s\u00fcr\u00fcyorum. Onsuz nefes almay\u0131 bile bilmiyordum bak.\u201d<\/p>\n

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“B\u00dcY\u00dcK B\u0130R A\u015eKTI”<\/h3>\n

\u201c17 ya\u015f\u0131nda m\u0131 tan\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131n\u0131z ve nas\u0131l, nerede?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cEvet 17 ya\u015f\u0131ndan beri beraberiz. Kuzeninin kom\u015fusuydum ben, onun amcas\u0131n\u0131n k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n. Orada tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131k, o g\u00fcn bug\u00fcnd\u00fcr hep beraberiz. \u0130nan\u0131lmaz b\u00fcy\u00fck bir a\u015fkt\u0131. Baz\u0131 medya organlar\u0131nda ipe sapa gelmez \u015feyler yazm\u0131\u015flar, s\u00f6zde 14 ya\u015f\u0131nda beni ka\u00e7\u0131rm\u0131\u015f falan, hay\u0131r. Bu adam\u0131 pedofili falan yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131lar o y\u00fczden. Hatta o y\u00fczden birka\u00e7 tanesini mahkemeye bile verdi.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201c34 y\u0131l dile kolay ama san\u0131r\u0131m istedi\u011finiz gibi bir d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn yapamad\u0131n\u0131z ve y\u0131llar sonra tekrar gelinlik giymi\u015ftiniz. O g\u00fcn\u00fc de anlat\u0131r m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?\u201d
\n\u201cO d\u00f6nem evet maddi durumumuz biraz zay\u0131ft\u0131 ama bu durumdan hi\u00e7 \u015fikayet\u00e7i de\u011fildik. Kokteyl tarz\u0131 bir \u015feyler yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131k b\u00f6yle. 18 Nisan 1998\u2019de evlendik. Kokteyl gibi minik bir \u015fey yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. Volkan bu duruma i\u00e7erliyordu ama ben asla\u2026 \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc onunla olmak zaten yeniden do\u011fmak. D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn dernek olmasa ne yazar!\u201d<\/p>\n

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\u201cYARIM KALAN B\u0130R HAYAL\u0130 VAR MIYDI?\u201d<\/h3>\n

Volkan Konak\u2019\u0131n e\u015fi \u201cHi\u00e7 gidemedi\u011fi bir yeri, yar\u0131m kalan bir hayali var m\u0131yd\u0131?\u201d sorusuna \u015fu s\u00f6zlerle cevap verdi:<\/p>\n

\u201cVard\u0131 tabii olmaz m\u0131? D\u00fcnyay\u0131 gezecektik onunla. D\u00fcnya turuna \u00e7\u0131kacakt\u0131k. O emekli olacakt\u0131. \u0130\u015flerini azaltacakt\u0131. Beraber gezecektik. Yani i\u015flerini sadece yaz\u0131n yapacakt\u0131. Bize daha \u00e7ok zaman ay\u0131racakt\u0131. Bana, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na. Tabii ki kald\u0131. Kalmaz olur mu? En b\u00fcy\u00fck hayalimizdi ama biz Bodrum\u2019da y\u0131llar sonra hayalimiz olup ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z o evde bile zaman ge\u00e7iremedik. Yani birbirimize istedi\u011fimiz zaman\u0131 ay\u0131ramad\u0131k ki benim en b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcm o. Ben 27 y\u0131ll\u0131k evliyim. Ama 34 y\u0131ll\u0131k beraberli\u011fim var. Ben Volkan’a doyamad\u0131m. Belki de 90 ya\u015f\u0131nda da \u00f6lseydik, yani o da \u00f6lseydi, ben de \u00f6lseydim yine doymazd\u0131m, doyamazd\u0131k. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc biz birbirimize garip bir ruh olarak ba\u011fl\u0131yd\u0131k. \u00d6yle sadece bir kar\u0131 koca ili\u015fkisi de\u011fildi bizimkisi. Yani normalde evlilikte bir s\u00fcre sonra a\u015fk biter. Sadece sevgi kal\u0131r. Bizde hi\u00e7 bitmedi. Birbirimize olan o a\u015fk\u0131m\u0131z, sevgimiz, tutkumuz hep vard\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Merhum sanat\u00e7\u0131 Volkan Konak\u2019\u0131n 27 y\u0131ll\u0131k e\u015fi Selma Konak \u00fcnl\u00fc sanat\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnden sonra konu\u015fmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u0130lk kez sessizli\u011fini bozan Selma Konak duygusal s\u00f6zleriyle sevenlerinin i\u00e7ini s\u0131zlatt\u0131.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":211264,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"rank_math_lock_modified_date":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[76],"tags":[133,16146,16102,16117],"class_list":["post-211256","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-magazin","tag-magazin","tag-selma-konak","tag-volkan-konak","tag-volkan-konak-olumu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/211256"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=211256"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/211256\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":211266,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/211256\/revisions\/211266"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/211264"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=211256"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=211256"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=211256"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}