{"id":230066,"date":"2025-09-03T11:37:00","date_gmt":"2025-09-03T08:37:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/?p=230066"},"modified":"2025-09-03T11:37:00","modified_gmt":"2025-09-03T08:37:00","slug":"yeni-egitim-donemi-minikleri-zorlayabilir-ebeveyn-kaygisi-cocuklarda-radyo-sinyali-gibi-etki-birakiyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/yeni-egitim-donemi-minikleri-zorlayabilir-ebeveyn-kaygisi-cocuklarda-radyo-sinyali-gibi-etki-birakiyor\/","title":{"rendered":"Yeni e\u011fitim d\u00f6nemi minikleri zorlayabilir! Ebeveyn kayg\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7ocuklarda \u2018radyo sinyali gibi\u2019 etki b\u0131rak\u0131yor"},"content":{"rendered":"

Yeni e\u011fitim ve \u00f6\u011fretim y\u0131l\u0131n\u0131n miniklere ba\u015flamas\u0131yla birlikte, milyonlarca \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in okulun kap\u0131lar\u0131 yeniden aralan\u0131yor. Psikolog Beyza S\u00fcrmen; ayr\u0131l\u0131k kayg\u0131s\u0131ndan, okulun ilk g\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7ocuk psikolojisine ad\u0131m ad\u0131m \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00f6nerileri sunulabilece\u011fini s\u00f6yleyerek, “Yaz tatilinin ard\u0131ndan \u00e7alan ilk ders zili, yaln\u0131zca \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in de\u011fil; anne-babalar ve \u00f6\u011fretmenler i\u00e7in de g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc duygular\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 aral\u0131yor. Okul kap\u0131s\u0131ndaki ilk ayr\u0131l\u0131k, kar\u0131n a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131, \u2018gitmek istemiyorum\u2019 c\u00fcmleleri ve g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131. Bu geleneksel tablo \u00e7ocuklar ve aileleri i\u00e7in yaz\u0131 m\u0131? Okulun ilk g\u00fcn\u00fc, kriz de\u011fil d\u00fczenlenebilir bir ge\u00e7i\u015ftir. Do\u011fru haz\u0131rlanm\u0131\u015f aile ve okul, birka\u00e7 g\u00fcn i\u00e7inde kayg\u0131y\u0131 meraka ve co\u015fkuya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrebilir” dedi.<\/p>\n

YEN\u0130 E\u011e\u0130T\u0130M D\u00d6NEM\u0130 M\u0130N\u0130KLER\u0130 ZORLAYAB\u0130L\u0130R<\/h3>\n

S\u00fcrmen, “Ebeveyn kayg\u0131s\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fa g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez bir telgraf gibi ula\u015f\u0131r. Sakin bir ses, kararl\u0131 bir duru\u015f ve s\u00f6ze ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k, \u00e7ocukta \u2018g\u00fcvenli base\u2019 etkisi olu\u015fturur” diyerek, ebeveyn kayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n da \u00e7ocuklara \u2018radyo sinyali gibi\u2019 ge\u00e7ti\u011fini s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n

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Beyza S\u00fcrmen, “Rutin \u00f6nerileri, k\u0131sa vedala\u015fma protokolleri, s\u0131n\u0131f i\u00e7i tan\u0131\u015fma rit\u00fcelleri ve hik\u00e2ye-oyun temelli reg\u00fclasyon teknikleri; evde ve okulda hemen uygulanabilir nitelikte. Okulun ilk g\u00fcn\u00fc, sadece \u00e7ocu\u011fun de\u011fil, ayn\u0131 zamanda anne baban\u0131n da kalbinin h\u0131zla \u00e7arpt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir g\u00fcnd\u00fcr” ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n

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Beyza S\u00fcrmen, yeni bir d\u00fcnyan\u0131n kap\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 aralayan \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in okulun, bazen endi\u015fe ve kayg\u0131 dolu bir maceraya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febildi\u011fini belirterek, “Bir yanda annesinin elini b\u0131rakmak istemeyen \u00e7ocuk, di\u011fer yanda s\u0131n\u0131fta ke\u015ffedece\u011fi oyuncaklara merakla bakan ayn\u0131 \u00e7ocuk ve \u00e7eli\u015fkili duygu durumu olduk\u00e7a do\u011fal” dedi.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuk psikolojisi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, okulun ilk g\u00fcn\u00fc ya\u015fanabilecek kayg\u0131 ve a\u011flama krizlerinin, \u00e7ocu\u011fun g\u00fcvenli aile ortam\u0131ndan ayr\u0131lman\u0131n getirdi\u011fi do\u011fal bir tepki oldu\u011funu dile getiren S\u00fcrmen, ailelerin bu duruma kar\u015f\u0131 haz\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini ifade etti.<\/p>\n

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Psikolog S\u00fcrmen, “Bu g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131, ‘Burada g\u00fcvende miyim?’, ‘Annem babam geri gelecek mi?’ gibi pek \u00e7ok sessiz soruyu i\u00e7inde bar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131r” diyerek, ailelere bu duygular\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden gelmek yerine, anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 tavsiye etti.<\/p>\n

Beyza S\u00fcrmen, ayr\u0131lma kayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n her \u00e7ocu\u011fun duygusal geli\u015fiminde normal bir a\u015fama oldu\u011funu, ancak bu durumun uzun s\u00fcrmesi halinde \u00e7ocuklarda okul fobisi gibi daha ciddi sorunlara yol a\u00e7abilece\u011fini belirtti. S\u00fcrmen, “Okul fobisi nas\u0131l yenilir?” sorusunun cevab\u0131n\u0131n sevgi, sab\u0131r ve gerekti\u011finde profesyonel destekle bulunaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ekledi. S\u00fcrmen, a\u011flayan bir \u00e7ocu\u011fa “A\u011flama” demek yerine, “Seni anl\u0131yorum, yeni bir yere gitmek biraz korkutucu olabilir” gibi c\u00fcmlelerle duygular\u0131n\u0131 kabul etmenin \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n

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Okulun ilk g\u00fcn\u00fc s\u00fcrecinde \u00f6\u011fretmen-veli i\u015fbirli\u011finin de hayati \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131na dikkat \u00e7eken Beyza S\u00fcrmen, “\u00d6\u011fretmen, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun en g\u00fcvenli limanlar\u0131ndan biri olabilir. ilk g\u00fcnden itibaren kurulacak sa\u011flam bir ileti\u015fim, olmas\u0131 muhtemel sorunlar\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7ebilir” dedi.<\/p>\n

S\u00fcrmen, her \u00e7ocu\u011fun okula adaptasyon s\u00fcreci farkl\u0131 i\u015fledi\u011fini, i\u00e7e d\u00f6n\u00fck ve d\u0131\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fck karakter tiplerine g\u00f6re yakla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131n da de\u011fi\u015fmesi gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6yledi. D\u0131\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n daha h\u0131zl\u0131 sosyalle\u015firken, i\u00e7e d\u00f6n\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n g\u00f6zlem yapmay\u0131 tercih etti\u011fini belirten S\u00fcrmen, ailelere bu ki\u015filik farkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131na sayg\u0131 duymalar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nerdi.<\/p>\n

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Ailelere Okulun \u0130lk G\u00fcn\u00fc Psikolojisini do\u011fru y\u00f6netmek i\u00e7in Psikolog Beyza S\u00fcrmen, 8 ad\u0131ml\u0131k yol haritas\u0131nda \u015fu ifadelere yer verdi:<\/p>\n

“Sakin ebeveyn, sakin \u00e7ocuk, duyguyu onaylay\u0131n, k\u0131sa ve tutarl\u0131 veda, rutin g\u00fcven \u00fcretir, \u00f6n-g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme ve tan\u0131\u015fma, hik\u00e2ye ve oyunla prova, \u00f6\u011fretmenle a\u00e7\u0131k hat ve sab\u0131r ve tutarl\u0131l\u0131k.”
\nS\u00fcrmen, “Okulun ilk g\u00fcn\u00fc, \u00e7ocu\u011fun hayat\u0131ndaki en kritik d\u00f6neme\u00e7lerden biridir” diyerek s\u00f6zlerine \u015fu \u015fekilde devam etti:<\/p>\n

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“Pozitif bir ilk deneyim, uzun vadeli akademik ba\u015far\u0131ya zemin haz\u0131rlar. Ancak ya\u015fanan travmatik bir deneyim, okuldan so\u011fumaya ve \u00f6\u011frenmeye kar\u015f\u0131 isteksizli\u011fe neden olabilir. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te hem \u00e7ocuklar hem de aileler i\u00e7in birlikte d\u00fczenleyece\u011fimiz seanslarla sizlere yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabiliriz. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te yaln\u0131z olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 unutmay\u0131n. Uzmanlardan destek almaktan ka\u00e7\u0131nmay\u0131n.”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Yeni e\u011fitim ve \u00f6\u011fretim y\u0131l\u0131na ba\u015flayan miniklere uzman isimden uyar\u0131 geldi. Psikolog Beyza S\u00fcrmen, bu heyecan dolu s\u00fcrecin \u00e7ocuklar ve ebeveynler i\u00e7in beklenmedik psikolojik zorluklar\u0131 da beraberinde getirebildi\u011fini s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":230087,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"rank_math_lock_modified_date":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[111],"tags":[1701,40856,61341,61342],"class_list":["post-230066","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-anne-cocuk","tag-egitim","tag-okul","tag-psikolog-beyza-surmen","tag-yeni-okul-donemi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/230066"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=230066"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/230066\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":230088,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/230066\/revisions\/230088"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/230087"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=230066"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=230066"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=230066"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}