{"id":240866,"date":"2025-09-26T21:09:00","date_gmt":"2025-09-26T18:09:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/?p=240866"},"modified":"2025-09-26T21:09:00","modified_gmt":"2025-09-26T18:09:00","slug":"anne-babalar-cocuklariniza-sakin-bagirmayin-cocuklara-asla-verilmemesi-gereken-cezalar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/anne-babalar-cocuklariniza-sakin-bagirmayin-cocuklara-asla-verilmemesi-gereken-cezalar\/","title":{"rendered":"Anne babalar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za sak\u0131n ba\u011f\u0131rmay\u0131n! \u00c7ocuklara asla verilmemesi gereken cezalar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ceza kelimesi kula\u011fa ho\u015f gelmese de ebeveynler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n yaramazl\u0131k yapmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in baz\u0131 ceza sistemleri uyguluyor. \u00c7ocuklara verilen cezalar\u0131n t\u00fcr\u00fcne g\u00f6re de\u011fi\u015fim ya\u015fan\u0131r. Baz\u0131 cezalar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n psikolojik durumunu da etkiler. Peki, \u00e7ocuklara verilememesi gereken cezalar nelerdir?<\/p>\n<h3>\u00c7OCUKLARA KAR\u015eI NASIL DAVRANILMASI GEREK\u0130R?<\/h3>\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011fu disipline etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak, ona sorumlu davran\u0131\u015f ve \u00f6zdenetim \u00f6\u011fretmek anlam\u0131na gelir. Uygun ve tutarl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde uygulayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z disiplinle, \u00e7ocu\u011funuz kendi eylemlerinin sorumlulu\u011funu anlamay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenir. \u00c7ocu\u011funuza hem duygular\u0131n\u0131 hem de davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 y\u00f6netmeyi \u00f6\u011fretebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-240867 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-52-31.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1208\" height=\"680\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-52-31.jpg 1208w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-52-31-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-52-31-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-52-31-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1208px) 100vw, 1208px\" \/><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>En iyi durumda disiplin, \u00e7ocu\u011funuz uygun davran\u0131\u015flar sergiledi\u011finde onu \u00f6d\u00fcllendirebilir, uygunsuz bir davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 adil ve olumlu yollarla cayd\u0131rabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-240869 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-53-26.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1208\" height=\"680\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-53-26.jpg 1208w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-53-26-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-53-26-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-53-26-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1208px) 100vw, 1208px\" \/><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>Kimi ebeveynler, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131nda disiplini sa\u011flayabilmek i\u00e7in vurma ya da \u015faplaklama gibi fiziksel ceza, ba\u011f\u0131rma ya da tehdit etme gibi ifadeler tepkisel olarak yanl\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<h3>\u00c7OCUKLARA VER\u0130LMEMES\u0130 GEREKEN CEZALAR NELERD\u0130R?<\/h3>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar geli\u015fimlerini sa\u011flarken \u00e7evresindeki ki\u015fileri idol olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcr ve modeller. Yeti\u015fkinlerden \u00f6\u011frendikleri hareket ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 hayatlar\u0131na empoze ederek, o \u015fekilde davranmaya ba\u015flarlar. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n bilin\u00e7li ya da bilin\u00e7siz bir \u015fekilde bir hata ve hareket yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda onu g\u00fczel bir dille uyarmak do\u011fru bir ad\u0131md\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte \u00e7ocuklara verilmemesi gereken cezalar:<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-240871 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-54-27.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1208\" height=\"680\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-54-27.jpg 1208w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-54-27-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-54-27-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-54-27-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1208px) 100vw, 1208px\" \/><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za ceza vermek yerine yapmas\u0131 gereken davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 s\u00f6yleyerek uyarabilirsiniz.<\/li>\n<li>Yaramazl\u0131k yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda k\u0131z\u0131p ba\u011f\u0131rmak yerine sergiledi\u011fi tavr\u0131 mimik ve jestlerinizle belli ederek durumdan ho\u015flanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6sterin.<\/li>\n<li>A\u015f\u0131r\u0131ya ka\u00e7an tehditler etmek yerine makul olan onu incitmeyecek, korkutmayacak, g\u00fcven kayb\u0131 ya\u015famayacak c\u00fcmleler tercih ederek dile getirin.<\/li>\n<li>Odas\u0131n\u0131 da\u011f\u0131tt\u0131ysa ba\u011f\u0131ra ba\u011f\u0131ra s\u00f6ylenmek yerine oyuncaklar\u0131n\u0131 birlikte toplamay\u0131 te\u015fvik edecek hareketlerde bulunulabilir.<\/li>\n<li>S\u00fcrekli \u0131srar ederek a\u011flayarak bir \u015feyi elde etmek istiyorsa, bunun olamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 her \u015feyin zaman\u0131 geldi\u011finde olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini dile getirin.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-240872 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-55-27.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1208\" height=\"680\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-55-27.jpg 1208w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-55-27-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-55-27-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-55-27-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1208px) 100vw, 1208px\" \/><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h3>\u00c7OCUKLARA F\u0130Z\u0130LSEL CEZA YER\u0130NE ALTERNAT\u0130F \u00d6NER\u0130LER<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Olumlu davran\u0131\u015flarda ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmas\u0131na te\u015fvik edin<\/li>\n<li>G\u00f6z temas\u0131 kurarak, yapmas\u0131 gerekeni s\u00f6yleyin. \u00d6rne\u011fin, &#8220;Oyuncaklar\u0131 toplayabilir misin?&#8221; yerine &#8220;Oyuncaklar\u0131 topla&#8221; deyin. \u00c7ocu\u011fun ne yapmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6yleyin, ne yapmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini de\u011fil.<\/li>\n<li>Gitti\u011finiz herhangi bir etkinlikten \u00e7ocu\u011funuz ho\u015flanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda yan\u0131n\u0131za alternatif, de\u011fi\u015fik oyuncaklar tercih edilebilir.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-240873 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-56-23.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1208\" height=\"680\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-56-23.jpg 1208w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-56-23-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-56-23-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/Adsiz-tasarim-56-23-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1208px) 100vw, 1208px\" \/><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun tek ba\u015f\u0131na oynayabilece\u011fi birka\u00e7 \u00f6zel veya ilgi \u00e7ekici oyuncak se\u00e7in ve onunla bir \u015feyler yapmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flay\u0131n. Bu \u00f6zel oyun s\u00fcrelerini k\u0131sa tutun ve \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu tek ba\u015f\u0131na iyi &#8220;\u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131&#8221; i\u00e7in \u00f6v\u00fcn.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun anlayabilece\u011fi birka\u00e7 kesin kural belirleyin. Sizin i\u00e7in en \u00f6nemli olan kurallara karar verin ve \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun bunlar\u0131 anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan emin olun. Kurallar\u0131 s\u0131k s\u0131k tekrarlay\u0131n ve \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu bunlara uydu\u011fu i\u00e7in \u00f6v\u00fcn.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n geli\u015fim evresinde anne ve babalar\u0131n ileti\u015fim kurarken dikkat etmesi gereken baz\u0131 detaylar bulunur. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131 h\u0131r\u00e7\u0131nla\u015ft\u0131rmadan, hayat kurallar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011freterek, gelece\u011fe haz\u0131rlayabilirsiniz. Peki, \u00e7ocuklara asla verilmemesi gereken cezalar nelerdir? <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":240870,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"rank_math_lock_modified_date":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[111],"tags":[2946,63097],"class_list":["post-240866","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-anne-cocuk","tag-anne-cocuk","tag-cocuklara-verilmemesi-gereken-cezalar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/240866"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=240866"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/240866\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":240876,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/240866\/revisions\/240876"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/240870"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=240866"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=240866"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=240866"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}