{"id":315220,"date":"2026-04-22T16:55:26","date_gmt":"2026-04-22T13:55:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/?p=315220"},"modified":"2026-04-22T17:02:01","modified_gmt":"2026-04-22T14:02:01","slug":"cocugunuzun-sizinle-duygusal-olarak-guvende-hissettiginin-6-isareti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/cocugunuzun-sizinle-duygusal-olarak-guvende-hissettiginin-6-isareti\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun sizinle duygusal olarak g\u00fcvende hissetti\u011finin 6 i\u015fareti!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Bir ebeveynin istedi\u011fi en \u00f6nemli duygu \u00e7ocu\u011funun kendisine g\u00fcven duydu\u011funu hissetmektir. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/cocuklarda-konusma-gecikmesi-belirtileri-cocuklarda-gec-konusma-korkulan-bir-durum-mu\/\">\u00c7ocuk<\/a> ve aile aras\u0131nda kurulan duygusal ba\u011f ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun kendini g\u00fcvende hissetmesi, t\u00fcm hayat\u0131n\u0131 da etkileyecek bir durumdur. \u00c7ocu\u011fun sadece fiziksel ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n de\u011fil, duygusal ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n da kar\u015f\u0131lanmas\u0131, duygusal olarak g\u00fcven duygusunun da temel ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. Peki bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun ebeveynine g\u00fcven duydu\u011funu nas\u0131l anlar\u0131z? \u00c7ocukta g\u00fcven duygusu nas\u0131l olu\u015fur? \u0130\u015fte her ebeveynin bilmesi gereken kritik detaylar&#8230;<\/p>\n<h3>\u00c7OCU\u011eUNUZUN S\u0130Z\u0130NLE DUYGUSAL OLARAK G\u00dcVENDE H\u0130SSETT\u0130\u011e\u0130N\u0130N 6 \u0130\u015eARET\u0130<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/cocuklarin-gelisimine-katki-saglayan-egitici-oyunlar-2026\/\">\u00c7ocuklar<\/a> i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyalar\u0131n\u0131 her zaman yeti\u015fkinler gibi kelimelerle anlatmazlar. E\u011fer \u00e7ocu\u011funuz a\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki i\u015faretleri sergiliyorsa, aran\u0131zda sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve g\u00fcvenli bir duygusal ba\u011f var demektir.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-315222 \" src=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/i-2026-04-22T161229.038.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"1467\" height=\"1087\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/i-2026-04-22T161229.038.webp 432w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/i-2026-04-22T161229.038-300x222.webp 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1467px) 100vw, 1467px\" \/><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<ul>\n<li>Yan\u0131n\u0131zda en \u015fiddetli \u00f6fkesini de, en derin \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc de g\u00f6steriyorsa sizin taraf\u0131n\u0131zdan reddedilmeyece\u011fini biliyordur. Bu durum \u00e7ocu\u011funuz size g\u00fcvendi\u011finin bir i\u015fareti olarak bilinir.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-315238 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Ekran-goruntusu-2026-04-22-165435.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1182\" height=\"701\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Ekran-goruntusu-2026-04-22-165435.png 1182w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Ekran-goruntusu-2026-04-22-165435-300x178.png 300w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Ekran-goruntusu-2026-04-22-165435-1024x607.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Ekran-goruntusu-2026-04-22-165435-768x455.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1182px) 100vw, 1182px\" \/><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<ul>\n<li>S\u0131n\u0131r \u00e7izebilen bir \u00e7ocuk, sizin sevginizin bir \u015farta ba\u011fl\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve kendisine sayg\u0131 duyuldu\u011funu hisseder.<\/li>\n<li>Duygusal olarak g\u00fcvende hisseden bir \u00e7ocuk hatalar\u0131n\u0131 gizleme gere\u011fi duymaz. Bir yanl\u0131\u015f yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda cezaland\u0131r\u0131lmaktan korkmak yerine \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc sizde ar\u0131yorsa, aran\u0131zda tam bir g\u00fcven kurulmu\u015ftur.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-315227 \" src=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/thumbs_b_c_7b8d40c7d19177cc5057fcc003e22bf3.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1299\" height=\"743\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/thumbs_b_c_7b8d40c7d19177cc5057fcc003e22bf3.jpg 864w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/thumbs_b_c_7b8d40c7d19177cc5057fcc003e22bf3-300x172.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/thumbs_b_c_7b8d40c7d19177cc5057fcc003e22bf3-768x439.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1299px) 100vw, 1299px\" \/><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<ul>\n<li>G\u00fcvende hisseden bir \u00e7ocuk sadece ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011funda de\u011fil, durup dururken de size gelir ve sar\u0131l\u0131r. Sizin elinizi tutmas\u0131, sizin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ona huzur verdi\u011finin i\u015faretidir.<\/li>\n<li>Kendini g\u00fcvende hisseden \u00e7ocuk, ebeveyniyle do\u011frudan ve samimi bir g\u00f6z temas\u0131 kurabilir.<\/li>\n<li>Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda \u00e7ekingen olsa bile sizin yan\u0131n\u0131zda t\u00fcm do\u011fall\u0131\u011f\u0131yla oyun oynay\u0131p sa\u00e7malayabiliyorsa, duygusal olarak size ba\u011flanm\u0131\u015f demektir.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-315226 \" src=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Haber-Ic-Gorsel-EMIN-OLMAK.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1330\" height=\"869\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Haber-Ic-Gorsel-EMIN-OLMAK.jpg 788w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Haber-Ic-Gorsel-EMIN-OLMAK-300x196.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Haber-Ic-Gorsel-EMIN-OLMAK-768x502.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1330px) 100vw, 1330px\" \/><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h3>\u00c7OCUKLARDA G\u00dcVEN DUYGUSU NASIL OLU\u015eUR?<\/h3>\n<p>G\u00fcven duygusu, bebe\u011fin d\u00fcnyaya g\u00f6zlerini a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131 andan itibaren ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131lan\u0131p kar\u015f\u0131lanmamas\u0131yla ili\u015fkilidir. Tutarl\u0131l\u0131k ise bu s\u00fcrecin anahtar\u0131d\u0131r. Ebeveynin \u00e7ocu\u011fun a\u011flama, g\u00fclme, korku gibi duygular\u0131n\u0131 zaman\u0131nda ve \u015fefkatle cevap vermesi, \u00e7ocu\u011fun zihninde g\u00fcven hissi olu\u015fturur. G\u00fcven, sadece kriz anlar\u0131nda de\u011fil rutinlerde, oyun saatlerinde ve aile ortam\u0131nda ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-315224 \" src=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/6619295f1f006e127a7a5da2.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"1353\" height=\"759\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/6619295f1f006e127a7a5da2.webp 731w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/6619295f1f006e127a7a5da2-300x168.webp 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1353px) 100vw, 1353px\" \/><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>\u00dcnl\u00fc e\u011fitimci ve yazar Do\u011fan C\u00fccelo\u011flu ise <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/koronavirusun-son-varyanti-nimbus-cocuklari-tehdit-ediyor-nimbus-virusu-belirtileri\/\">\u00e7ocukta<\/a> duygusal g\u00fcven konusunda &#8216;\u00c7ocu\u011fun en temel ihtiyac\u0131 olan g\u00fcven duygusu, sevgi ve fiziksel ihtiya\u00e7lar d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda \u00e7ocu\u011fun duygular\u0131n\u0131n aynalanmas\u0131 ve ebeveynler aras\u0131ndaki tutarl\u0131 tepkilerle geli\u015fir&#8217; ifadelerini kullanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-315221 \" src=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/1552987072_g__venlik___htiyac___bb__1__af4514ab1de824909642.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1186\" height=\"791\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/1552987072_g__venlik___htiyac___bb__1__af4514ab1de824909642.jpg 850w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/1552987072_g__venlik___htiyac___bb__1__af4514ab1de824909642-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/1552987072_g__venlik___htiyac___bb__1__af4514ab1de824909642-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1186px) 100vw, 1186px\" \/><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h3>EN SIK SORULAN SORULAR VE CEVAPLARI<\/h3>\n<h3>\u00c7ocu\u011fumla aramdaki g\u00fcven ba\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sonradan onarabilir miyim?<\/h3>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklarla olan ba\u011f her zaman onar\u0131lmaya m\u00fcsaittir. Yanl\u0131\u015f bir tepki verdi\u011finizde \u00f6z\u00fcr dilemek ve duygusunu anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak, g\u00fcven duygusunu \u00e7o\u011faltacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<h3>\u00c7ok kuralc\u0131 olmak g\u00fcveni zedeler mi?<\/h3>\n<p>S\u0131n\u0131rlar \u00e7ocuklara g\u00fcvenlik hissi verir. Ancak bu kurallar \u015fefkatten yoksun ve sertse korku olu\u015fturur. Disiplin ve \u015fefkat aras\u0131nda kurulan iyi bir denge ise \u00e7ocukta g\u00fcven duygusunu geli\u015ftirir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir \u00e7ocuk kural\u0131n kendisini k\u0131s\u0131tlamak i\u00e7in de\u011fil, korumak i\u00e7in konuldu\u011funu g\u00f6sterilen \u015fefkatle \u00f6\u011frenir.<\/p>\n<h3>\u00c7al\u0131\u015fan ebeveynler i\u00e7in g\u00fcvenli ba\u011flanma nas\u0131l sa\u011flan\u0131r?<\/h3>\n<p>\u00d6nemli olan \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla nitelikli zaman ge\u00e7irmektir. Sadece \u00e7ocu\u011fa odakl\u0131 ge\u00e7irece\u011finiz 20 dakika, t\u00fcm g\u00fcn\u00fcn ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 telafi eden bir zamand\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Her ebeveyn &#8216;\u00c7ocu\u011fum benim yan\u0131mda ger\u00e7ekten huzurlu mu?&#8217;, &#8216;\u00c7ocu\u011fumun bana g\u00fcven duydu\u011funu nas\u0131l anlar\u0131m?&#8217; sorular\u0131n\u0131n cevaplar\u0131n\u0131 merak eder. \u00c7ocuk psikolojisinde \u00e7ocu\u011fun ebeveynine g\u00fcvenli ba\u011flanmas\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun hayata kar\u015f\u0131 duru\u015funu, \u00f6zg\u00fcvenini ve gelece\u011fini do\u011frudan etkiliyor. Peki \u00e7ocuk kendini nas\u0131l g\u00fcvende hisseder? \u00c7ocukta g\u00fcven duygusu nas\u0131l olu\u015fur? \u0130\u015fte \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun sizinle duygusal olarak g\u00fcvende hissetti\u011finin 6 i\u015fareti&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":35,"featured_media":315242,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"rank_math_lock_modified_date":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[111],"tags":[2946,113,74072,74073,46210],"class_list":["post-315220","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-anne-cocuk","tag-anne-cocuk","tag-cocuk","tag-cocukta-guven","tag-guven-duygusu","tag-guvenli-baglanma"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/315220"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/35"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=315220"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/315220\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":315240,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/315220\/revisions\/315240"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/315242"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=315220"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=315220"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tgrthaber.com\/mavikadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=315220"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}